We have a new vlog series headed your way titled “Wifeing.” This idea came about after I had my first night alone with the kids. While my husband was having an amazing time at a men’s retreat a huge insecurity rose up in me that honestly shook me to my core:
“What if my husband decides he doesn’t want to come back?”
There was honestly nothing to warrant this fear but it was so real in my heart. Once my husband returned the next day and we talked through it—meaning I cried and panicked until we got to the root of it—I realized I was afraid he would leave because I had no idea how to be a wife. I didn’t have anyone sharing their lessons learned and wisdom until later years. Apparently this absence planted an insecurity deep within my soul.
So, in the midst of walking through healing and uprooting that weed, I realized I can’t be the only one that’s experienced a similar fear or concern. Even simply having the desire to have wives in your life that would share wisdom and lessons learned with you to sift and mold as needed for your own marriage/future marriage. Unlike the marriage series I did a few years ago, this will be woman to woman not couple to couple.
I have incredible women lined up to share little nuggets that you can take, sift, mold, put in your pocket and apply as needed. The vlogs have encouraged me so much and I hope they do the same for you!
*Photo Credit: Mathew Danser Photography
Wifeing #1: Meet Calah
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