“One thing that I believe helped me to maintain a healthy marriage is knowing that our marriage is about sacrificial love — it’s about supporting my husband as unto Christ. As a “helper,” (Gen. 2:18), I count it an honor and a privilege to walk alongside my husband and support/help him. When you help someone, the focus is taken off…
“Prayer – pray for God to provide supernatural insight into your wife — really a roadmap to her heart, the very core of her being. Secondly, rather than trying to change her or a situation – fix it – first pray and ask God to do it. I have found that, most of the time, I then need to do…
“Before we were married, a friend and mentor told me something that has stuck with me through our ten years of marriage — that marriage is rarely if ever 50/50. There will be seasons when marriage requires more from you than the other person may have to give. Sometimes it’s you giving 90% and the other person can only give…
“I know everyone’s go to answer is communication, but what that looks like is listening well and getting to know each other more, and better, to be able to support each other where they are, in whatever season it may be, and to do that, you gotta pray first! Through the most difficult of seasons, committing to praying for one…